can be a very dangerous thing. Have you ever thought about if you actually wrote down every thought you had, that mattered? Not the have to do this, that and the other, thoughts but the ones that change you.
I am thinking about friendships today and how I have a lot of "friends" but not a lot of real true love friends. Joe pointed out to me that I have to be friends with everyone, or so I think. Why is that, why do I feel the need to have to be friends with someone and not just acquaintances. There is nothing wrong with not being friends with someone. I certainly don't get offended by people who do not befriend me. Why do I assume that others do if I don't? Is it narcissism? Is it a fear of not being liked? Is it a fear of that's not the nice thing to do? I don't know but I do find myself being friends with people that I don't particularly like. Then what, is it OK to say," You know since I have gotten to know you I don't really think I like you." Do they feel the same way, how else do you know if you like someone if you don't hang out???
But I have to say that I am truly blessed to have aah 6 or 7 really wonderful women who I would do anything for and know they would do the same for me. You know who you are and I love you dearly and I know we will be friends for life.
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